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God Loveth not the Wasters
Author : Mufti Dr. Radwan Al-Sraira
Date Added : 05-11-2024

God Loveth not the Wasters

 

Praise be to Allah, Who has legislated for us a religion that ensures the well-being of both this life and the Hereafter. "He is the One Who Does, He who created not know, while He is the Subtle, the Acquainted?" [Al-Mulk/14]. He sent His Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, as a mercy to the worlds.

Since Allah The Almighty wanted us to enjoy a balanced system of life, He didn`t approve for us to indulge in acts of extravagance nor to be extravagant ourselves. Rather, He Praised His believing servants in His words (What means): "And those who, when they spend, do so not excessively or sparingly but are ever, between that, [justly] moderate." [Al-Furqan/67]. Extravagance means to exceed the permissible limit. According to the Quran, among those who are not engaged in sin, the extravagant are of two types 

First Type: The Extravagant in Worship

Allah The Almighty forbids excessiveness in acts of worship and burdening oneself beyond its capacity, so that one does not become like the "Munbat" or exhausted traveler who is cut off and unable to reach his destination, as described by the Prophet (PBUH): "This religion is solid, so apply it gently, and do not make Allah's worship loathsome to yourself, for the exhausted traveler neither reaches his destination nor spares his mount." [Al-Bayhaqi].

Allah The Almighty Says (What means): "And He it is who produces gardens trellised and untrellised, and dates and crops of different kinds of food and olives and pomegranates, similar yet different. Eat of their fruit when they bear fruit and give [Allah’s] due on the day of harvest. And do not be extravagant; indeed, He does not love the extravagant." [Al-An'am/141]. Ibn Kathir explains this as meaning: "And do not be extravagant in giving (in charity/Zakah) – to give beyond what is prescribed."

It is reported that this verse was revealed regarding Thabit Ibn Qais Ibn Shammas (may Allah be pleased with him), who harvested dates and said: "No one shall come to me today but I will feed them." So, he fed until evening without leaving any fruit for himself. Then Allah revealed (What means): "And do not be extravagant; indeed, He does not love the extravagant." The wisdom behind this is that a person does not deprive those under his care, as they are his responsibility for provision.

When Sa’d Ibn ‘Ubada (may Allah be pleased with him) wanted to give away all his wealth in charity, the Prophet (PBUH) forbade him, permitting him to give only a third, saying: "A third, and a third is much. It is better for you to leave your heirs wealthy than to leave them dependent, begging from people." [Al-Bukhari].

Moreover, here is the Mother of the Believers, Zaynab Bint Jahsh (may Allah be pleased with her), who tied a rope in the mosque between two columns to support herself during night prayers. When the Prophet (PBUH) saw it, he ordered it to be removed, saying: "Untie it; let one of you pray as long as he feels energetic, and when he tires, let him sit down." [Ibn Majah].

Second Type: The Extravagant in Clothing, Food, and Drink

Likewise, Allah The Almighty forbids extravagance in clothing, food, and drink, so that a person does not become a slave to his desires, indulging every wish, which may lead him to fall into prohibited actions if he is unable to satisfy these desires. Allah Says (What means): "Indeed, the soul is ever inclined to evil." [Yusuf/53].

By curbing his desires, a person develops a sense of responsibility toward those in need, in devotion to Allah. It has been said: "Whoever eats everything he desires is extravagant.” Allah Says (What means): "O children of Adam, take your adornment at every masjid, and eat and drink, but be not extravagant. Indeed, He does not like the extravagant." [Al-A’raf/31].

Adornment refers to clothing without extravagance or arrogance, and to eating and drinking what is lawful, as the Prophet (PBUH) said: "Eat, drink, wear clothing, and give in charity, without arrogance or extravagance, for Allah loves to see His blessings on His servant." [Ahmad].

Ibn Abbas (May Allah Be Pleased with him) said: "Eat what you like, and wear what you like, as long as you avoid two qualities: extravagance and arrogance." This, while remembering that Allah loves to see the effect of His blessing on His servant.

Extravagance in these matters can lead to arrogance, which Allah detests, and to the depletion of resources without any benefit to all people. A prime example of this is what happens at banquets, where much more food is discarded than is consumed. One is accountable before Allah for this, as He, The Most Exalted Says (What means): "Then you will surely be asked that Day about pleasure." [At-Takathur/8].

Praise be to Allah, who made us a balanced nation, with no extravagance nor miserliness. We ask Him to continue His blessings upon us, to preserve our security and well-being, and to grant us righteous endings. May Allah’s Peace and Blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, and upon his family and companions.

 

 

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I broke my oath and am now obligated to pay the expiation for a broken oath (kaffārat al-yamīn). Would it be valid to fulfill this by inviting the poor and needy to a meal for them to eat from?

Praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings upon our master, the Messenger of Allah.
The expiation for a broken oath (kaffārat al-yamīn) is given to the poor (fuqarā') and needy (masākīn), and it must be given in the form of ownership (tamlīk) transferred to them of the required amount — namely, one mudd of the staple food of the locality, or its equivalent monetary value. It isn`t valid to invite the poor or needy to a meal prepared for them to eat from, as this does not constitute "ownership" (tamlīk) but merely "permission to partake" (ibāḥah).
Imam al-Shirbīnī (may Allah have mercy on him) said: "What is intended is that ownership be transferred to them; therefore, providing them with lunch or dinner [as a meal to eat from] isn`t valid." [Summarized from Mughnī al-Muhtāj,Vol. 5/P.50]. And Allah the Almighty knows best.

In the Sharia-compliant viewing  at a prospective bride (*al-naẓrah al-sharʿiyyah*), is it permissible for the man to see the woman without a veil (*ḥijāb*)?

All praise is due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our master, the Messenger of Allah.
It is sunnah for the suitor to see the woman he is seeking to marry within the limits the Sharīʿah permits, namely looking at the face and the hands (palms and backs), based on the saying of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): “Look at her, for it is more likely to bring about harmony between you.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhī.
The suitor may also ask one of the women to look at the woman he is seeking to marry. In that case, she is permitted to see of her what she is normally permitted to see, which is not limited to the face and hands, and she then describes these matters to the suitor. It is narrated on the authority of Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent Umm Sulaym to look at a girl, and said: “Smell her breath, and look at her heels.” Narrated by Aḥmad in his Musnad.
It is stated in Tuḥfat al-Muḥtāj (Vol.7/p.192): “For one who cannot easily look, or does not wish to look himself, it is sunnah to send someone who is permitted to look at her, to observe her and describe her to him, even regarding what he himself is not permitted to look at. He thereby gains through the sending what he would not gain through looking. Because of the added need for this, it is excepted from the prohibition of a woman describing another woman to a man.”
The permissibility of looking is conditional upon his resolve to marry her once he is able to, his predominant assumption that his proposal will be accepted, and his assumption that the woman is free of marriage and of a waiting period (ʿiddah). Otherwise, looking is forbidden.
Accordingly, it is not permissible for the suitor to look at anything other than the face and hands. He may ask one of his maḥram women, such as his mother or sister, to see the woman unveiled, and the Sharia-compliant viewing (of a prospective bride) must take place in the presence of one of the woman’s maḥrams. And Allah Almighty knows best.

What is the ruling on combining more than one intention in the prayer, such as combining the *sunnah* of wuḍūʾ with the pre-Dhuhr *sunnah*, or combining the *sunnah* of greeting the mosque (*taḥiyyat al-masjid*) with the pre-Dhuhr *sunnah*?

All praise is due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our master, the Messenger of Allah.
Combining two intentions in a single act of worship, which some jurists call the “overlapping of acts of worship”, has several cases and precise rules. These can be consulted in the books of legal maxims, such as al-Manthūr fī al-Qawāʿid al-Fiqhiyyah by al-Zarkashī and al-Ashbāh wa’l-Naẓāʾir by al-Suyūṭī. Among the most important of these rules:
First: If all of the acts of worship that one wishes to combine under one intention are obligatory, the intentions do not overlap. An example is combining the intention of the obligatory ʿAṣr prayer with that of the obligatory Dhuhr prayer. The intentions do not overlap in this case.
Second: If the two acts are specified supererogatory prayers (nawāfil muqayyadah) that are aimed at in themselves because of a particular time, occasion, or cause, or if they are an obligatory prayer and a specified supererogatory prayer, the intentions again do not overlap. An example is the Duha prayer, which may not be combined with, for instance, the regular sunnah of Dhuhr.
It is stated in Bushrā al-Karīm: “Whatever is not, in meaning, an absolute voluntary prayer, such as the Duha sunnah… is not subsumed under another. Rather, if he intends something else along with it… the prayer is not validly entered. This is because combining two obligations, two specified supererogatory prayers, or an obligation and a specified supererogatory prayer invalidates the prayer in cases not built upon overlapping, as ritual purification (ṭahārah) is.”
Third: If the two acts are absolute voluntary prayers (nawāfil muṭlaqah), or one of them is, where the texts of the Sharīʿah show that the aim of the voluntary act is to fill the time with worship, then overlapping of intentions is permissible. An example is the obligatory Dhuhr prayer together with the sunnah of greeting the mosque (taḥiyyat al-masjid). And Allah Almighty knows best.

Is it permissible for a suitor to go out with his fiancé upon the conclusion of the marriage contract?

Upon the conclusion of the marriage contract, the woman becomes lawful for her husband. However, the customary practice should be observed in this regard since rights could be lost in case of divorce, or death.