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The Series of Values in Islamic Civilization... Joy
Author : Dr. Fadi Rabab`ah
Date Added : 11-10-2023

The Series of Values in Islamic Civilization... Joy

 

In this worldly life, every person experiences two states: a state of blessings and joy or a state of trials and sorrow. Both of these states are good for a believer. This is what the Prophet Mohammad, peace be upon him, mentioned when he said: "Amazing is the affair of the believer, for all of his affairs are good, and this is for no one except the believer. If something good happens to him, he is thankful, and that is good for him. If something harmful happens to him, he is patient, and that is good for him." {Transmitted by Muslim}. In Islam, there are two types of joy: praised joy and blameworthy joy.

 

Praised joy can be experienced for various reasons, whether related to the blessings of this world or the rewards of the Hereafter.

 

An example of praised joy from the blessings of the Hereafter is the joy experienced by believers during acts of worship, such as the happiness at the end of the fasting month of Ramadan with the celebration of Eid al-Fitr, the joy of performing the Hajj pilgrimage, and the blessed celebration of Eid al-Adha. On the other hand, an example of praised joy from the blessings of this world includes celebrating happy occasions such as birthdays, weddings, successful achievements, obtaining a job, or accomplishing a significant project in one's life, as long as these celebrations align with the moral and cultural norms recognized by society. Allah, in the Quran, encourages believers to express their joy by saying, " Say: "In the bounty of God. And in His Mercy,- in that let them rejoice": that is better than the (wealth) they hoard.'" {Yunus, 58}.

 

One of the common joys for all Muslims and for all rational and fair-minded individuals among humanity is the celebration of the birth of the Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him). Allah, the Most High, described the Prophet as a source of mercy. He said: "We sent thee not, but as a Mercy for all creatures." {Al-Anbiya, 107). The mission of the Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) is indeed a blessing and favor from Allah. Allah says {what means}: "God did confer a great favour on the believers when He sent among them an apostle from among themselves, rehearsing unto them the Signs of God, sanctifying them, and instructing them in Scripture and Wisdom, while, before that, they had been in manifest error." {Al-Imran, 164}. Allah also says {What means}: "It is He Who has sent amongst the Unlettered an apostle from among themselves, to rehearse to them His Signs, to sanctify them, and to instruct them in Scripture and Wisdom,- although they had been, before, in manifest error;- As well as (to confer all these benefits upon) others of them, who have not already joined them: And He is exalted in Might, Wise. Such is the Bounty of God, which He bestows on whom He will: and God is the Lord of the highest bounty." {Al-Jumu`a, 2-4}.The Prophet Mohammad's (peace be upon him) birth is a cause for great joy and celebration, as it is a manifestation of the divine mercy and grace.

 

In the context of celebrating the birth of prophets and righteous individuals, Allah has mentioned in the Quran the joy and blessings associated with their births. For example, when describing the birth of the Prophet John (Yahya) (peace be upon him), it is said: " So Peace on him the day he was born, the day that he dies, and the day that he will be raised up to life (again)!." {Maryam, 15}. Similarly, when talking about the birth of the Prophet Jesus (Isa) (peace be upon him), Allah says: " So Peace on him the day he was born, the day that he dies, and the day that he will be raised up to life (again)!." {Maryam, 33}.

Even before that, the Quran narrates the birth of the righteous lady Mary (Maryam) (peace be upon her) with a graceful and joyful expression. Allah says {What means}: "Behold! a woman of ’Imran said: "O my Lord! I do dedicate unto Thee what is in my womb for Thy special service: So accept this of me: For Thou hearest and knowest all things." When she was delivered, she said: "O my Lord! Behold! I am delivered of a female child!"- and God knew best what she brought forth- "And no wise is the male Like the female. I have named her Mary, and I commend her and her offspring to Thy protection from the Evil One, the Rejected." Right graciously did her Lord accept her: He made her grow in purity and beauty: To the care of Zakariya was she assigned. Every time that he entered (Her) chamber to see her, He found her supplied with sustenance. He said: "O Mary! Whence (comes) this to you?" She said: "From God: for God Provides sustenance to whom He pleases without measure."{Al-Imran, 35-37}.

 

The Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) himself expressed joy at the day of his birth. Abu Qatada reported: "O Messenger of Allah, what do you think about fasting on Monday?" He said, "On that day, I was born, and on it, the Quran was sent down to me." {Transmitted by Abu Dawood}.

 

Additionally, the companions of the Prophet (peace be upon him) inquired about him, and he responded: "I am the supplication of my father Abraham, the good news for Jesus, and my mother was given the glad tidings with a light by which palaces of Sham were illuminated for her when she was pregnant with me." {Transmitted by Ibn Hibban}.

 

The mention of Abraham and good news for Jesus refers to the Quranic verses. In the case of Abraham, it points to the supplication he made to Allah for the sending of a Messenger among his descendants: "Our Lord! send amongst them an Apostle of their own, who shall rehearse Thy Signs to them and instruct them in scripture and wisdom, and sanctify them: For Thou art the Exalted in Might, the Wise." {Al-Baqara, 129}.

 

In the case of Jesus, it refers to a similar verse that alludes to Jesus (peace be upon him) giving the glad tidings of the coming of a Messenger after him: " And remember, Jesus, the son of Mary, said: "O Children of Israel! I am the apostle of God (sent) to you, confirming the Law (which came) before me, and giving Glad Tidings of an Apostle to come after me, whose name shall be Ahmad." But when he came to them with Clear Signs, they said, "this is evident sorcery!". {As-Saff, 6}.

 

These narrations and Quranic verses emphasize the significance of the Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) and the joy of his birth, as he was foretold and blessed by the previous Prophets.

Due to the significance of the birthday of the Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him), many Islamic scholars have written special works dedicated to his birth. Some of these works include:

Imam Ibn Hajar al-Haytami's book "Al-Ni'ma Al-Kubra Ala Al-Alam Bi Mawlid Sayyid Adam."

 

Imam Al-Qastallani's book "Al-Mawahib Al-Laduniya Bi Al-Minah Al-Muhammadiya," in which he mentioned that the night of the Prophet's birth is superior to the Night of Decree (Laylat al-Qadr).

Imam Ibn Kathir, Imam Al-Suyuti, Imam Ibn Dayba Al-Shaibani, Al-Birzangi, Al-Samhudi, and Imam Ibn Al-Jazari, among others, have also written on this topic.

 

Additionally, celebrating and rejoicing in the birth of the Prophet (peace be upon him) is a common practice among Muslims, both on an official level in many Islamic countries and on a popular level. The birthday of the Prophet (peace be upon him) remains a day of joy, celebrating the mercy, blessings, and grace of Allah upon humanity.

 

And Allah perfect praise be to Allah the Lord of the Worlds.

 

 

 

 

 

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What is the ruling on praying alone (munfaridan) in a row, and what should I do if I enter the mosque together with another person, and there is only a single gap in the first row with no second row present — should I fill that gap in the first row, or should I stand together with him in a new second row?

All praise is due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our master, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.
If a person enters [the congregation] and finds no space available in the row, it is recommended for him — after making his opening takbīr for the prayer — to gently pull someone from the row in front of him to pray alongside him, provided he senses that this person would be agreeable to it. If that person does not agree, then he prays alone, and there is no dislike attached to his doing so in that case.
If he ends up praying alone [behind the row], it is sunnah for him to stand directly behind the imam. Then, if someone else arrives, that person stands to his right; and whoever comes after them stands to his left — and so on — such that the imam remains centered in the middle of the row. This is done so that everyone attains the reward of congregational prayer.
As for the case where two people enter the prayer together, and there is a gap in the row wide enough for only one person, then the two of them should pray together in a new row [of their own], and whoever arrives after them should fill that original gap. This is because if only one of the two fills the gap, the other would end up praying alone [which is to be avoided when it can easily be prevented].
Al-Khaṭīb ash-Shirbīnī (raḥimahullāh) said in Mughnī al-Muḥtāj (Vol.1/P.494): "If he does not find space, then it is recommended for him, while still standing, to gently pull a single person from the row toward himself after making his opening takbīr — out of caution, so as to avoid the position held by some scholars that a person's prayer standing alone behind the row is not valid.
Az-Zarkashī and others said: this should only be done if it seems he would agree to it; otherwise, he should not pull anyone — indeed, doing so becomes impermissible, out of fear of causing discord (fitnah). It is recommended for the person being pulled to cooperate and agree, so that he may attain the reward of assisting in righteousness and piety (al-birr wat-taqwā). However, he should not pull one of two people [praying together] from the row, since this would cause one of them to end up praying alone. This is why the 'pulling' described here takes place only after the opening takbīr [i.e., once the person doing the pulling has already validly begun his own prayer]."
Accordingly: it is sunnah for you to pray alongside the person praying alone, and then, if someone else arrives afterward, you may go and fill the gap in the original row. And Allah, the Exalted, knows best.

My husband discloses all our marital disputes to his family. What is the ruling of Islamic Law on this?

All praise is due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our master, the Messenger of Allah.
 
It is impermissible to divulge spousal secrets or expose one another's faults, whether during the subsistence of the marriage or after its dissolution. The foundational principle governing marital relations is that it is built upon confidentiality and mutual affection. Divulging marital secrets constitutes a breach of trust and a grave sin.
 
A husband ought not to resort to his family to complain about his wife over every dispute, nor is the reverse permissible for the wife, especially when such actions lead to stirring up malice and animosity between the spouses or between their respective families.
 
Islam has enjoined the preservation of secrets in general and commanded against revealing them; safeguarding the privacy of the home holds an even greater priority. And Allah Almighty knows best.

What is the ruling on men wearing rings (those made of silver and of other metals, such as iron), and are there conditions for men wearing rings?

All praise is due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon our master, the Messenger of Allah.
It is sunnah for men to wear a silver ring on the right hand, following the practice of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). It is reported in Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī, on the authority of Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him), that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) took a silver ring and had “Muḥammad Rasūl Allāh” engraved on it. He said: “I have taken a ring of silver and had ‘Muḥammad Rasūl Allāh’ engraved on it, so let no one engrave the like of its engraving.”
It is a condition that the silver ring not exceed the size customary in the local norm (ʿurf). If it does, that is extravagance (isrāf). A ring made of a metal other than silver, such as iron or copper, is permissible to wear without disapproval (karāhah), except gold, which is forbidden (ḥarām) for a man to wear.
It is stated in Mughnī al-Muḥtāj (Vol.1/p.586): “It is permissible, without disapproval, to wear a ring of iron or lead. It is sunnah for a man to wear a silver ring on the little finger of his right or left hand. Wearing it on the right is better, and it is permissible on the left, and on both together.”
It is also stated in Mughnī al-Muḥtāj (Vol.2/p.97): “It is lawful for him, that is, the man, and likewise the khunthā (person of indeterminate sex), indeed all the more so, to wear a ring of silver, by consensus (ijmāʿ), because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) took a ring of silver, narrated by the two Shaykhs (al-Bukhārī and Muslim). Wearing it is in fact sunnah, whether on the right or the left, though the right is better according to the sound position, as stated in the chapter on clothing in al-Rawḍah… The Shāfiʿī jurists did not specify the permitted size of the ring, and they probably relied on custom (ʿurf), that is, the custom of that country and the habit of people of his standing in it. Whatever exceeds that is extravagance, as they said regarding a woman’s anklet. This is the reliable position (al-muʿtamad).” And Allah Almighty knows best.

What is the ruling on using an inhaler while fasting?

Using an inhaler through the nose or mouth breaks the fast because the medication in these inhalers is intended to reach the lungs, which are considered part of the body cavity (jauf).
● If a person needs to use it occasionally, they may use it while fasting, continue refraining from food and drink for the rest of the day, and make up for the missed fast later.
● If a person needs to use it daily, they may use it while fasting, continue refraining from food and drink, and pay fidyah (feeding one needy person per missed day).