Summarized Fatawaa
• Is the father a Mahram(Non-marriageable) to his son`s mother-in-law?
The father is a non-Mahram(Marriageable) to his son`s mother-in-law, so it is impermissible for them to look at each other, or to have a seclusion(Khalwah).
• What would motivate me to love prayer and to pray?
Loving prayer comes from your realization that life is doomed to perish, but the Hereafter isn`t, and that your prayer is your righteous deed which will comfort you in your grave and save you from Hellfire on the Day of Resurrection. Wouldn`t you like to enjoy tranquility in this life and go to Heaven in The Hereafter!. Take your time and ponder for death is inevitable. We ask Allah to strengthen your faith and ours.
• Is it permissible to make ablution without answering the call of nature after waking up?
Washing front and back openings(Istinjaa`) is not a condition for the validity of ablution because it is done to remove Najaasah(impurity), thus if there is no Najaasah, there is no need for that, and then it is permissible to make ablution without answering the call of nature. However, prayer is invalidated if there is Najaasah on the anus ,or the front opening, so it(Najaasah) must be removed for the prayer to become valid, and not the ablution.
• A woman used contraceptive pills, and her menses exceeded(15) days, is it permissible for her to fast?
The maximum of menstrual blood is(15) days, but if it exceeded that due to a medication, or the like, then it is Istihadah(bleeding outside the monthly period), and in this case she should perform Ghusl(ritual bath), pray, and fast. Moreover, she is obliged to make up for the missed fasting days which exceeded her regular menses.